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This week, Trending sex columnist Jade Zwane offers advice to a reader who has found out his girlfriend used to be a sex worker. Reader: I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We started dating and everything was okay, until one day a guy I know told me that she was a sex worker.
I asked her about it and she denied it, so I let it go. He thought he was talking to her, and said he was hoping they could do business. He got into the price details and other issues. Because she did not mind me having access to her Facebook, I searched through her inbox to messages dating back to about a year before we met and found messages proving that she really had done sex work before. I asked her again if she would have told me if she had ever done something like that when we met.
She said she would have. I knew that she was lying. I have since been stuck between wanting to show her the messages and not. I know she lost her mother at an early age and might have been driven by poverty to sex work.
I love her and feel that I could come to peace if she would tell me why she did it rather than lie to me about her past. What should I do? If what you suspect is true, does it change how you feel about her? Are you willing to lose her to a part of her life that she might not be proud of? If she is not honest about what you believe to be her past then you need to make a decision and stop investigating her as this is a breach of trust on your part.
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